Not just action, sometimes thinking can ruin your romantic relationship and partner. Although this idea looks trivial, but if you believe eventually these thoughts can cause problems.
Here are a few assumptions and erroneous thinking of the couple, as reported by sources.
1. Suspicion
Suspicions happen when you cause something in the absence of clear evidence. For example: He was late coming home, certainly because he was having an affair with another woman.
2. Focus on the bad things
You are too focused on the negative side and the pair did not notice the bright side. Suppose you think that your partner never takes your words seriously and always avoid when going to discuss the issue.
3. Too generalize
Not all things that are great friends and habits. Suppose that when couples forget about a thing, you become angry and think that he will forget about other important things as well. Though not necessarily like that. It may be that when the couple really forgot and accidentally.
4. Raising issues
Sometimes relationships can be damaged when small problems are exaggerated for no apparent reason. Suppose that all of a sudden you think that because the couple had a lot of ex-girlfriends, he was a playboy and not to be trusted. Though it is not necessarily in reality.
5. Underestimating the important things
as little things exaggerated, sometimes important things are overlooked can also cause problems. Suppose that when couples want to please you by getting dinner, you take it underestimated because of prejudice that the couple was cover up his mistake by getting dinner.
6. Black and white thinking
For you, there is only black and white. If he did not do it right, then he’s wrong. This is tantamount to judging someone because of the little things he does. This kind of thinking could ruin your relationship in the end.
7. Reading mind
Any how smart you are, cannot possibly read all the thoughts mate. So do not knowledgeably, and more is asked about what he thinks and what he wants. Know it can cause problems if what you think it turned out the opposite of what they have in mind mate.
8. Prejudice
Prejudiced bad pair can lead to ruined relationships. Suppose that when couples do something good you always think that there are bad intentions behind it. How can you continue the relationship if the partner is always prejudice?
Eight fallacies above usually appear gradually. If left unchecked, you will get accustomed to think badly of the couple until the end of any relationship foundered in the middle of the road.
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